People-Pleasing Is Costing You More Than You Think

People-pleasing sounds harmless, doesn’t it? You’re helpful. Easygoing. Dependable. You care about other people’s feelings, and you don’t want anyone to be disappointed. What could possibly be wrong with that? Well… potentially a lot. Because people-pleasing isn’t always kindness.

People-Pleasing Is Costing You More Than You Think2026-09-02T08:10:06-05:00

Are You an Expert at Conversations That Only Happen in Your Head?

Have you ever spent an entire shower, your commute, a dog walk, or a sleepless night having a conversation that will likely never actually happen? Welcome to the club. We have these imaginary conversations in our heads ALL the

Are You an Expert at Conversations That Only Happen in Your Head?2026-08-12T09:09:42-05:00

If I Had to Get Sober Again, I’d Do These 5 Things

If you had to start your sobriety over tomorrow—for real, from zero—would you even know what to do? After many years sober, coaching thousands of people, and watching what actually works (and what doesn't), I can see exactly why

If I Had to Get Sober Again, I’d Do These 5 Things2026-08-05T08:58:45-05:00

Why Dry July Is the Perfect Time to Make a Real Decision

The hardest part of quitting drinking isn't giving up alcohol—it's accepting that you can't outsmart it. If you're thinking about doing Dry July, I want you to approach it differently this year. Not as another challenge to survive. Not

Why Dry July Is the Perfect Time to Make a Real Decision2026-07-01T07:37:35-05:00

You’re Not Doing the Work — You’re Just Watching Other People Do It

Reading about sobriety isn't the same as doing the work to get sober. If you feel like you’re doing everything for your sobriety—but nothing is actually changing—this episode is for you. And trust me, there's a huge difference! Here's

You’re Not Doing the Work — You’re Just Watching Other People Do It2026-01-14T07:12:16-06:00

I Have No Idea What to Say Today (And That’s Okay)

Exhausted from overthinking everything before you even start? You're not alone. Well, my friend, I'm going to be really honest with you today – after 400+ episodes, I had absolutely no idea what to talk about for this one.

I Have No Idea What to Say Today (And That’s Okay)2025-12-24T08:37:25-06:00

What ‘Rock Bottom’ Really Means and How It’s Keeping You Stuck

If you're a high-functioning drinker waiting for rock bottom to give you permission to quit, this episode will change everything. Most people think rock bottom is an external event—a DUI, job loss, or divorce. But that's not what rock

What ‘Rock Bottom’ Really Means and How It’s Keeping You Stuck2025-12-17T09:02:03-06:00

5 Proven Steps to Conquer Social Anxiety After Quitting Alcohol

How are you feeling about your next social event? Calm, confident, and ready to connect? (Or did that question just stir up a wave of anxiety and second-guessing?) And what about your body? Tense, tight shoulders? Racing heartbeat? (If

5 Proven Steps to Conquer Social Anxiety After Quitting Alcohol2026-01-31T18:36:33-06:00

Why Emotional Intelligence is the New Superpower to Level Up Your Recovery & Life

Have you ever thought about leveling up your personal development? Growing your emotional intelligence and emotional maturity can open the door to incredible transformations, both personally and professionally. And today, my amazing guest is the perfect example of how

Why Emotional Intelligence is the New Superpower to Level Up Your Recovery & Life2026-01-31T18:29:02-06:00
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