How to Forgive Yourself for What You Did While Drinking

You can stop drinking, completely change your life, and become someone you’re proud of… …and still cringe when you think about some of the things you did. Maybe it’s the way you treated your spouse. The fights you started.

How to Forgive Yourself for What You Did While Drinking2026-08-26T09:28:28-05:00

If I Had to Get Sober Again, I’d Do These 5 Things

If you had to start your sobriety over tomorrow—for real, from zero—would you even know what to do? After many years sober, coaching thousands of people, and watching what actually works (and what doesn't), I can see exactly why

If I Had to Get Sober Again, I’d Do These 5 Things2026-08-05T08:58:45-05:00

The Real Reason You Drank

If you've ever wondered why quitting drinking didn't automatically fix your life, this episode will explain exactly why. One of the biggest misconceptions about recovery is believing alcohol is the entire problem. It's not. Alcohol is the top layer.

The Real Reason You Drank2026-07-22T08:54:33-05:00

The Truth About “Taking a Break” From Alcohol

You've done Dry July. You've done Sober October. You've had a hundred Day Ones. So why does nothing ever actually stick? In this episode, we're talking about one of the most common phrases I hear from people who want

The Truth About “Taking a Break” From Alcohol2026-07-15T08:26:02-05:00

Why Dry July Is the Perfect Time to Make a Real Decision

The hardest part of quitting drinking isn't giving up alcohol—it's accepting that you can't outsmart it. If you're thinking about doing Dry July, I want you to approach it differently this year. Not as another challenge to survive. Not

Why Dry July Is the Perfect Time to Make a Real Decision2026-07-01T07:37:35-05:00

The Most Dangerous Phase of Early Sobriety

You survived the first 5 or 7 days of sobriety and you're finally starting to feel better. The anxiety is calming down. You're sleeping again. Your face looks better. The shame isn't screaming quite as loud anymore. And this

The Most Dangerous Phase of Early Sobriety2026-06-24T10:36:03-05:00

4 Signs Sobriety Is Actually Working (Even When It Feels Like It’s Not)

You're doing everything right — so why does sobriety feel like it's making everything worse? One of my clients came to me about a month into our work together and she was defeated. Not the white-knuckling kind of defeated

4 Signs Sobriety Is Actually Working (Even When It Feels Like It’s Not)2026-04-29T07:49:39-05:00

Why Everything Feels So Intense When You Quit Drinking

Early sobriety can feel like your emotions are turned up to 100 — and if you don’t understand what’s happening in your nervous system, it can feel overwhelming fast. One of the biggest mistakes people make in recovery is

Why Everything Feels So Intense When You Quit Drinking2026-03-04T07:12:53-06:00

Overwhelmed by Sobriety Advice? Here’s How to Actually Start

You know what's keeping you from getting sober? All the advice telling you how to get sober. Everyone's got a different rulebook. The old-timers say meetings every day, get a sponsor immediately, work the steps to a tee. People

Overwhelmed by Sobriety Advice? Here’s How to Actually Start2026-02-03T14:36:08-06:00
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