The hardest part of quitting drinking isn't giving up alcohol—it's accepting that you can't outsmart it. If you're thinking about doing Dry July, I want you to approach it differently this year. Not as another challenge to survive. Not
The purpose of a coping skill isn't to erase the feeling. It's to help you behave better while you're feeling bad. Most people believe they need more discipline, more motivation, or more willpower to stay sober. But the real
What will you do for fun? Will you still be yourself? Will your relationships change? Will life ever feel normal again? If you've ever thought: "But what will my life look like without alcohol?" You're not alone. In fact,
Getting sober doesn’t just change your relationship with alcohol — it changes your relationships with people. Not always in a dramatic, burn-it-all-down kind of way. Sometimes it’s quieter than that. A partner still drinks. A friend still wants you
I’ll walk you through five simple questions to ask before you go into any social situation. One of the most common questions people ask in early sobriety is, “Should I go?” Should I go to the birthday party? The
You survived the first 5 or 7 days of sobriety and you're finally starting to feel better. The anxiety is calming down. You're sleeping again. Your face looks better. The shame isn't screaming quite as loud anymore. And this
Making rules, breaking rules, starting over — if drinking takes up too much space in your brain, you'll recognize yourself in this conversation. Not a dramatic rock bottom. Not losing everything. Not waking up one day suddenly certain she
Nobody ever explained what “doing the work” in recovery actually means. You hear it constantly: Do the work. You have to do the work. Are you doing the work? But almost nobody stops to explain what that actually looks
You quit drinking—and now you’re staring at your life like… now what? No one really talks about this part. The part where alcohol is gone, but everything else is still the same—and suddenly, nothing fits. It feels hollow. Disconnected.
You're doing everything right — so why does sobriety feel like it's making everything worse? One of my clients came to me about a month into our work together and she was defeated. Not the white-knuckling kind of defeated